Single Love Guru : Irony?




A* shares the happy fact that he's back with his girlfriend. Again. After numerous break-and-make-up's.

B* moans to me about how he hates yet misses a stuck-up b*tch (his words) he used to be tight & sweet with.

C* trusts me to keep his recent breakup a secret.

D* thanks me for something he had learned from me, that eventually helped patch things up with his girl.

E* tells me about how he's given up on her, thanks me for "helping" him anyway, and that he will endeavor to look for another girl.



...Etcetera, etcetera, but i'm stopping here.



Today's realization:
that i found it heavily ironic that my guy friends keep coming to me about their love life, even asking for advice... i mean, it's not like i've had tremendous experience or anything. Heck, i'm a member of NBSB. Then again, i've had a number of people tell me that i'm a really good listener, so maybe that's why.

Well, I always try to make it a point to listen to people. You can come to me about anything. I don't promise nor claim to be the "fixer of your problems", I won't interrupt, and I most definitely will not judge, because that's not my job to do. 

But I will listen. :)


*Real first name initials have been substituted for. I have these people's trust, and I don't want to lose it.

P.S. I think I keep too many people's secrets. But that's a good thing, right?

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